The man sits down next to me and opens his bag to pull-out a thick novel he is halfway through. His arms and face are a bright red colour – sunburn from the recent warm weather and his lack of sunscreen. There’s a little girl sitting opposite eating jellybeans with her mum.
“You can only have one,” the lady says to her daughter. The Jellybean Girl is dissatisfied with the offer and cheekily grabs a handful out of the packet.
Sunburn Man notices and tells how his youngest son does the same thing, instigating a conversation between the two about their children. The man talks passionately about his three children – even standing up at one point to describe the height of his seven year-old. Never does Sunburn Man portray his children as difficult or a burden. Nor does he express how they tire him with their misbehaviour or disobedience.
His unconditional love for them is potent in his speech.
It occurred to me that this is how God speaks about His children. About me. He doesn’t dwell on my disobedience or stubbornness, but rather talks about how proud I make Him, how strong I’m becoming with my arm-wrestles, how I ask for outrageous things.
And I know that when I make a mistake and approach my Dad with a downward face and guilt-laden shoulders and manage to muster the strength to look him in the eyes and say the words, “I’m sorry”, His arms open wide. He gives me a warm hug and He says,
“Jason, it’s OK. I love you.”